It Rained. We Stayed.

by Sandee Rodriguez | Aug 10, 2026 | Invisible Warriors

It poured on Sunday, the day of the Invisible Warriors’ family picnic.

Not a light drizzle. Rain. The kind that soaks through everything and gives you every reason to pack up and go home.

Nobody left.

Sixteen individuals (women veterans and their families) showed up for Invisible Warriors’ summer picnic, and not one of them let the weather change the plan. They came with dishes to share — casseroles and sides and desserts, the kind of spread that happens when a group of people actually want to feed each other. IW brought the fried chicken and drinks. The sky brought the rain. And somehow, it was one of the best Sunday afternoons we’ve had.

That’s the thing about this community. It doesn’t need perfect conditions. These are women who’ve trained in the cold, deployed in the heat, and kept going when things got hard. A little rain on a picnic isn’t going to stop them from showing up for each other.

"A little rain on a picnic isn't going to stop them from showing up for each other."

What struck me most wasn’t the food (though the food was excellent). It was watching people relax. Really relax. Veterans who understand each other in ways that don’t need a lot of explaining. Families who felt at home. Conversations that went long past when anyone was still eating.

That’s what Invisible Warriors is. Not a program or a service provider — a community where women veterans belong.

"That's what Invisible Warriors is. Not a program or a service provider — a community where women veterans belong."

If you’ve been thinking about getting involved — as a veteran, a family member, a volunteer, or a supporter — this is your invitation. We gather, we show up for each other, and yes, sometimes we eat fried chicken in the rain.

Come join us. We’d love to have you. Learn more about the Invisible Warriors Club and how to get involved.

It Rained. We Stayed.

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The Night the Room Came Alive

by Sandee Rodriguez | Jun 26, 2026 | Invisible Warriors

What happens when you stop asking women veterans to fit in — and start building something just for them

The room was set up and ready.

Tables decorated. Silent auction items spread out, bidding sheets waiting. The Twickenham Jazz Band was getting their chairs and stands in place. People were running around testing mics, checking timers, adjusting centerpieces for the fourth time.

Things were humming. The atmosphere was electric — filled with hope, a little fear, and the deep relief that the day was finally here.

And then people started to arrive.

The line formed around the building. Women veterans. Supporters. Community members. People who had driven an hour just to be in that room. I stood there watching them come in and something caught in my throat that I didn’t expect.

This was real. We were real.

"The line formed around the building."

Women veterans. Supporters. Community members. People who had driven an hour just to be in that room.

The moment a room stops being a venue

There’s a shift that happens — you’ve probably felt it — when a gathering stops being an event and starts being alive. When the energy changes because the right people are in it.

That’s what happened at the Silent No More Gala.

The Twickenham Jazz Band found their groove and the music wrapped around everything — the laughter, the greetings, the quiet moments when two women locked eyes across the room and just knew. Knew they weren’t alone. Knew someone had seen them.

The silent auction tables buzzed. People leaned in, wrote their bids, nudged each other. But honestly? The bidding wasn’t the point.

The point was the woman in the corner who hadn’t been to an event in years — sitting up straight, shoulders back — because somebody finally made a room just for her.

What our keynote said that nobody forgot

When Former CPT Lesley-Anne Crumpton took the stage, the room went still in that particular way. Not quiet. Present.

Every woman in that room had carried something heavy to get there. Her service. Her transition. The years of feeling invisible in the very systems built to serve her. And Lesley-Anne named it — clearly, without flinching, without softening the edges — and then pointed toward something better.

That’s what we came for.

Not a program. Not a panel. A moment of being fully seen by someone who had walked the same road.

"A moment of being fully seen by someone who had walked the same road."

That's what we came for.

Why this matters beyond one night

The Silent No More Gala wasn’t just a fundraiser. It was a declaration.

Women veterans exist. They are here, in our community, carrying stories that deserve to be heard and needs that deserve to be met. Invisible Warriors exists because for too long, the systems designed to support veterans were designed around someone who didn’t look like her.

We’re changing that. One room, one program, one relationship at a time.

If you were there — thank you. You made it what it was.

If you weren’t — there’s a place for you in this work. We’re just getting started.

Seen. Known. Standing Together.

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The Night the Room Came Alive

Women Veterans: Memorial Day

by Sandee Rodriguez | May 25, 2026 | Invisible Warriors

This Memorial Day, let’s talk about the women who gave everything.

On Memorial Day, we line the streets.
We hang the flags.
We say the words.

“Thank you for your service.”

And we mean it. At least, we think we do.

But here’s what we’re not saying.

Women veterans have served in every war this country has fought. From the Revolutionary War to Iraq and Afghanistan. You bled on the same ground. You carried the same weight. You came home — and this country didn’t know what to do with you.

On the one day we set aside to honor the fallen and the brave — most people don’t even picture a woman. That is not accidental. That is a pattern.

The image of a veteran in this country is male. It has always been male. The VA was built for men. The statues are mostly men. The stories we tell are mostly men.

You raised your hand anyway.

You signed on the dotted line. You said you would give your life for this country. You meant it. You did it.

Some of you didn’t come home.

And those of you who did? You came home to employers who didn’t recognize your service. Communities that looked right past you. A system that was never built to hold you.

We see you.

Invisible Warriors is built by women, for women, with the understanding that belonging is not soft. It is everything. We believe that peer connection — women helping women — is one of the most powerful forces in the world. Not a program. Not a checklist. A community that knows your name before you finish your sentence.

You don’t need saving. You need what you earned.

Respect. Honor. A seat at the table that’s been at the head of this country’s defense since the beginning.

Memorial Day is not just for the men. It never was.

So this year, when you hang your flag and say your words — look a little further. Learn a name you don’t know. Support an organization fighting for women who served. Write a check. Show up.

Because “thanks for your service” is the beginning. Not the end.

It’s time we showed our gratitude with something deeper than words.

Visit us at invisiblewarriors.org

Because you don’t have to do it alone — we are here with you.

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Renew and Rise Retreat April 2026

by Sandee Rodriguez | May 20, 2026 | Events, Invisible Warriors

Renew and Rise Retreat April 2026

Every now and then, you have to stop running and just breathe.

That is exactly what nine incredible women veterans did April 17 – 19, 2026, when Invisible Warriors headed to Crest View Lodge and Venue atop Lookout Mountain in Fort Payne, Alabama, for our first annual Renew and Rise Retreat. Crest View was a wonderful choice – it was a beautiful location, deer wandered around, and the staff were friendly, helpful, and supportive. In spite of all the signs around the property, warning us about bears, they didn’t show up. Thankfully!

"Y'all, it was exactly what we needed."

Friday Arrival

From the moment we checked in Friday afternoon, the whole energy shifted. No schedules to chase, no obligations pulling us in ten directions. Just women who get it, in a gorgeous private setting, with nothing on the agenda but taking care of ourselves and each other. We settled in, connected, and sat down together for the first of many meals we would share that weekend.

Saturday: Rest, Renewal, and Real Talking

Saturday morning started with a continental breakfast, Tai Chi on the mountain, and then a sit-down breakfast for anyone who wanted to keep going. That became the rhythm of the weekend, and it was a good one.

We had a health program focused on the best ways to take care of your body, along with some time set aside just for pampering. Treat yourself, for real. Then came a talk about decluttering your life, your body, and your mind, which hit a lot of us right where we needed it.

After lunch, women had a choice between hiking in the beautiful park right next to the venue or working on an art project. Both groups came back glowing.

Then came a surprise none of us had planned for on the agenda. The women pulled together a birthday celebration for our founder Nancy Becher, complete with cake, ice cream, and a chorus of happy birthday that probably echoed off the mountain. It was one of those moments that reminded us exactly why we do this.

That evening we had dinner together and watched Served Like a Girl in the lodge’s movie room. Later we played dominoes and Phase 10 like we had something to prove, and the competition was fierce. The laughter was even fiercer.

"If you have not seen that film with a room full of women veterans, I highly recommend it. There was not a dry eye, and there did not need to be."

Sunday: Reflecting and Sharing

Saturday night’s dominos ran until 2 in the morning. Nobody complained. At 6:30, every single one of them was up to watch the sun rise over the mountains. Then they went back to bed, and yours truly had to play reveille to get them up at 10. Some things never change.

Sunday morning brought breakfast, and then something really special: time to reflect, journal, and share our takeaways from the weekend. That circle of voices, those women being honest about what they were carrying and what they were leaving behind, that is what Invisible Warriors is all about.

"Our speakers were women veterans, which is always the most powerful thing we can offer each other. No one has to explain the context. No one has to translate the experience. You just talk, and the room already knows."

No uniforms. No ranks. No judgment.

Just support. That is what we promised, and that is what we delivered.

With Deep Gratitude

None of this would have been possible without the extraordinary generosity of Drake State Community & Technical College. Their grant funding covered a tremendous portion of this retreat, and we are so deeply grateful. We want to especially recognize Azra, Neoka, and Susan, whose belief in Invisible Warriors and in the women we serve goes far beyond writing a check. They show up for us, they champion what we are building, and they make it possible for our women to have weekends like this one. Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts.

"If you are a woman veteran who has never been to an IW retreat, that needs to change. This is what we are here for: not just the resources and the advocacy, but the moments where you remember you are not alone."

You never were alone, and you never will be as long as we have each other.

Renew and Rise. We did exactly that.

With gratitude,
Nancy, Founder and President of Invisible Warriors

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